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EFT Case Story: Drum Circle Tapping for Exclusion & Connection
Mark Robertson, an EFT Master Practitioner, Drum Tapping Circle healer and presenter at the 2013 EFT & Energy Conference, has put together a case study with a lady that has suffered from feelings of exclusion for her whole life, and is worried about not being able to feel a strong connection with her new-born granddaughter
Mark writes: Sandra a British expatriate living in France, was signed up to participate in one of my online Drum Circle Tapping sessions on the 17th of April.
She had a hard time getting online with the rest of the group in the Drum Tapping Circle but finally succeeded after 30 minutes of concentrated technical frustration. She arrived in an advanced state of stress, and explained that the keyword that described the emotions she felt was “exclusion”. This word was important for her because she was born prematurely on the 2nd of May and was kept under observation in the intensive care unit in an incubator, separated from her mother for the first month of her life.
Since the very beginning of her life she has experienced these familiar feelings of separation and exclusion in many different situations.
This is also significant because this year will be her 65th birthday and the beginning of her retirement... Which may also be interpreted as a certain type of exclusion. This situation had created a lot of stress because in order to receive her retirement benefits she had to find all of the documents and fill in the gaps to reconstitute her professional life.
Also her oldest daughter will give birth to a baby girl in the beginning of May, about a week from her own birthday. I explained that this means her granddaughter will have a specific energy link to her because they both will have the same "birth point" *(see illustration below). This particular equation constitutes an energetic "twin" link with her grandmother within the family tree.
Sandra explained that she's trying to understand why she has this illogical apprehension, this difficulty to connect with her granddaughter. She can't feel the same connection with this baby girl as she did with the first-born son of her daughter four years ago. She feels emptiness, a kind of blank feeling, part of her is panic stricken, and she feels it resonates with her cellular memories of her difficult birth and she feels it in her throat. She told me her granddaughter's birth has been calculated to be around the 20th of June but she has the intuition that the birth will be around the 10th of May. (Little Anna was born on the 11th of May).
She recognizes that there are many intellectual explanations, but she really feels this illogical fear or disconnection on a visceral level. (This is often encountered with emotional traumas inherited from generations past or that happened before the age of verbal expression).
I suggested we use the Drum Circle Tapping approach for her Ghost Shadows since there were ancestral memories directly linked with her date of birth and all the emotions around the birthing process in general.
Her subjective intensity was - 9 on the SUE scale, she felt it in her body as tension in her head all the way down the right leg, the whole right side was painful, as if it was on fire, and her nervous tension had aggravated her scoliosis and sciatica all the way down to the right foot. Her chronic scoliosis had recently become so intense that she had to wear a corset to be able to stand up straight on her feet; otherwise she was leaning forward or leaning to the side which had become very uncomfortable for the last two months. I explained that all of this was only the result of stuck energy behind her unconscious or energy mind protection system shielding her from her emotions. I reminded her that by focusing her intentions during the Drum Circle Tapping, not only would she benefit from the tapping but also future past generations will be liberated from these emotions around birth.
The following is the transcription of the Drum Circle tapping we did.
Beginning of the tapping, Opening the Circle:
While I beat the Heartbeat rhythm please hold your hands in the heart healing position while breathing deeply and repeat after me.
1. The drum is an instrument that liberates births....
(Start by tapping the twin karate points and go through the circuit with the points that you feel in affinity with, except when otherwise stated).
1. I really had a hard time coming into this circle tonight
Top of the Head: All of this excessive yang energy that no longer flows....
16. From my little toe on the right side all the way to the top of my head...
I now choose to connect with the energy of the drum....
22. Allowing the energy of water to flow freely....
Place your healing hands on your heart and Breath in quietly......
So how is the intensity of -9?
"I feel at least +5 intensity now.
"I feel incredibly at peace... I feel like something that is rising, rising, becoming lighter and lighter... Truly I feel better and I know now that my own mother had quite a bit of apprehension at the time of my premature birth which was kind of an escape for her because she really didn't feel ready.
"So, part of the apprehension that I experience is not even mine I feel it's coming from my mother and her ancestors.
"Also my own daughter has quite an apprehension of becoming a mother because she was raped when she was a young girl.
"And so the simple fact of having the responsibility of raising and protecting a young girl is scary for her.
"I really feel much lighter and liberated from this apprehension and ready to welcome my granddaughter now.
"So, for me there are at least four generations that were liberated here I really feel gratitude for the drum and all of you in the tapping circle tonight
I received this e-mail the next day...
"Re-Mark-able EFT CHAMAN!
The intergenerational reading proved to be the key to undoing the knots all down my right side, and I realize I've not been relaxed since I learnt of my daughter's pregnancy back in the autumn.
At last I feel able to welcome little Anna without fear of burdening her with our old crap!
GOD BLESS YOU and Renée"
Then this e-mail at the birth of her granddaughter...
There is a ANNA!
Saturday May 11 at 15h09 in Paris!
She is perfect -pink with very black hair and BIG eyes and powerful lungs
Thank you so much for your support, I feel very relieved and ready for the rest of the adventure!!
Her Mama is doing very well and Papa and big brother Peter, nearly 4, are thrilled
The photos are in telephones...will forward...
Best wishes for the Visio conference and all
*(See the illustrations below)...that were created by Dr. Salomon Sellam.
*This Circle of creation illustrates the different possibilities of energetic relationships among people.
Mark Robertson will explain this all in more detail during his 2013 EFT & Energy Conference Presetation.