What is the Energy of Attraction?

What is the Energy of Attraction?

Alex Kent, CEO of the Guild of Energists, has written a must-have book called “The Energy of Attraction” which explores the topic of how we can attract beautiful lovers, positive friends and bucket list ticking events into our lives. We’ve asked the author to explain a little bit more and whet your appetite for a very special read that has the power to make you a very different you!

What is The Energy of Attraction in a Nutshell?

Anyone growing up watching movies and TV will know the mantras “attractiveness is on the inside” and you should “just be yourself” to win the hearts of those you desire.

Whilst these are both true and the basis of my book The Energy of Attraction, being your best-self all the time is impossible as your energy levels go up and down through the day.

For example, we all have experienced times in our lives when our energy has been in deficit and we’ve been socially anxious, nervous, scared, angry or upset. Perhaps we’ve been in conflict, or something bad and out of control has just happened.

We’ve also thankfully had times in our lives where our energy has been in surplus where we’ve been confident, felt great, been outgoing and excited to be alive.

All of these times in your life were the same physical you, yet your energy levels and emotions directly affect how you see and interact with the people around you, how you view yourself and also how you make decisions.

So yes, when you first meet someone you should be yourself. But you need to be the best you you can be. That’s the definition of an attractive person.

The Energy of Attraction is about advanced goal setting because none of us knows what we are truly capable of, so setting goals from who you are now is selling yourself short.

From the moment you were born, you’ve been influenced by your family, friends, schools, society and the media about who you are, how you should behave and what you can possibly hope to achieve.

We’ve built our own matrix, like a bird cage, and none of us knows who we could be until we start testing the boundaries and breaking free.

Once you do, you’ll discover a +10 energy threshold shift and your world will be forevermore expanded.

This part of The Energy of Attraction is the solution to any limiting beliefs you may have on your looks, age, ethnicity, sexuality, what potential partners are looking for, etc. You’ll discover you are already way more attractive than you ever thought about yourself.

From knowing deeply who you are and what you want, you can begin to make the changes needed to make them come true, all by raising your base energy levels.

Once you are in what I call “Energy Surplus” you’ll start to notice just how differently people behave around you. Plus you’ll also be empowered to influence them through advanced leadership skills.

After the basics of The Energy of Attraction model, comes tried and test approaches for meeting new people, being seen (and being comfortable being seen), attracting attention, knowing when someone is interested in you, how to overcome approach anxiety, how to approach a stranger, the art of good conversation, going on dates and having first sex with a new partner.

Finally, I’ve included a big section on “The Energy of Attraction in Action” on topics I know the reader will have at least thought about - online dating, social media, speed dating and partner social dancing.

Who Is The Energy of Attraction Suitable For?

I’ve written The Energy of Attraction for all adults 18+. That’s men and women, heterosexual or otherwise.

There is much talk about how different men and women are, how we should exist on different planets, speak different languages, etc. It’s very easy to jump into gender stereotypes about men should do this, women should do that.

But the truth is that how we feel, ie what’s important, is pretty much identical.

We all generally want the same things - happiness, connections, love....

When reading the book, you might be thinking “oh I could never do that” or “I’ll leave that up to someone else.”

And if so - ask yourself “Why? What would happen if I did? How could that skill benefit me?”

By exploring our beliefs and pushing the boundaries of our comfort zones, we are raising our baseline energy levels which affects all areas of our lives.

You’ll also discover insights about what other people are thinking, feeling and going through just for the chance of meeting you!

How Did You Come to writing the Energy of Attraction?

Like every sexual being on this planet, I’ve been fascinated with how people are attracted to one another.

I had so many questions like why do people have to meet in pubs & bars, why is alcohol often involved, what is about online dating that felt to me a little bit wrong - and most importantly to me - why I personally was struggling to find a new partner when there were attractive people all around me?

After my marriage ended, I began intensively researching and studying from the opinions, techniques and methods of countless gurus.

It became clear that all of them had apparent good success, but only a few talked about “energy”.

And those that did used all sorts of terms - mojo, charisma, state, confidence - yet these were being described in almost mythical terms. A good metaphor would be to compare it to the man that used to roll lengthways between Buddhist temples seeking enlightenment.

What they were all missing was the Modern Energy framework.

Now we can achieve these high-energy states predictably and almost effortlessly, whilst enjoying the journey along the way.

The Energy of Attraction is a unique set of tools for self-improvement and I’m delighted to put this power for change in readers hands at the energy conference this November 2017. Can’t wait!

The Energy of Attraction by Alex Kent is now available direct from the publisher DragonRising Publishing or all good book shops. See:

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CEO of the Guild of Energists.

Training courses and events with Alex Kent:
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GoE Townhall Meet Up LIVE - News 🌟 Views 🌟 ENERGY! with Silvia Hartmann, Zoe Hobden & Alex Kent
28 Mar 2024 - Online
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Star Matrix Master - March 2024 with Zoe Hobden & Alex Kent
25 Mar 2024 - Online - Distance Learning - Over 12 Weeks
Alex Kent has the following products in the store:
Big Ted A4 Magic Tapping Sheet

Big Ted A4 Magic Tapping Sheet

Posted Dec 8, 2017
If you love BIG Ted's Guide to Tapping , you'll love our new A4 Big Ted 'Magic Tapping' sheets.  These high quality, double-sided, laminated, GoE Magic Tapping  Sheets,  make for a perfect...
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BIG Ted

BIG Ted's Guide to Tapping: Energy Tapping For Children To Help Them Feel Great!

Posted Dec 7, 2022
Turn negative emotions into positive ones with BIG Ted's Guide to Tapping. Join the loveable BIG Ted as he guides you and your child through the near miraculous energy tapping. ~ New for 2023!...
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The Energy of Attraction by Alex Kent

The Energy of Attraction by Alex Kent

Posted Oct 9, 2017
The Energy of Attraction  is the complete guide for men and women seeking social, romantic and sexual abundance through the practise of Modern Energy based techniques. Meeting, dating and...
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Alex Kent has kindly contributed the following titles to the 🏫 GoE Library:
DragonRising Radio Show

DragonRising Radio Show

Posted Jan 8, 2018
DragonRising is the publishing arm of the Guild of Energists and they've released some of the most outstanding and innovative audio products available, including: HypnoSolutions, HypnoDreams,...
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GoE2014 - P08 - Internet for Energists with Alex Kent

GoE2014 - P08 - Internet for Energists with Alex Kent

Posted Nov 23, 2017
This workshop is about top tips for energists who want to harness the power of the internet for self-promotion, productivity and creativity. As well as offering a forum to talk about what has...
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GoE2017 - P08 - The Energy of Attraction with Alex Kent

GoE2017 - P08 - The Energy of Attraction with Alex Kent

Posted Nov 17, 2017
This is a talk on the energy interplay between couples in this most primal and intimate of dances. Attraction is a game for two, yet the journey between first contact and sex is often not the...
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GoE2021 - P11 - Modern Energy With Children & In Daily Life with Alex Kent

GoE2021 - P11 - Modern Energy With Children & In Daily Life with Alex Kent

Posted Nov 25, 2021
Modern Energy is not isolated to therapy or self help, it's energy for life and all the family. Discover delightful stories and examples when the youngest energists start to play in the...
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The Energist - Vol 2015.2.1 - New Beginnings

The Energist - Vol 2015.2.1 - New Beginnings

Posted Jan 21, 2015
Winter 2015 edition of The Energist magazine.
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The Energist - Vol 2015.2.2 - Project Sanctuary

The Energist - Vol 2015.2.2 - Project Sanctuary

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Spring 2015 edition of The Energist magazine.
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The Energist - Vol 2015.2.4 - Harvesting From The Tree of Lights

The Energist - Vol 2015.2.4 - Harvesting From The Tree of Lights

Posted Sep 1, 2015
Autumn 2015 edition of The Energist magazine.
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The Energist - Vol 2016.3.1 - Energy EFT Foundation

The Energist - Vol 2016.3.1 - Energy EFT Foundation

Posted Mar 19, 2016
Spring 2016 edition of The Energist magazine.
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The Energist - Vol 2017.4.1 - The Best Year Ever!

The Energist - Vol 2017.4.1 - The Best Year Ever!

Posted Feb 1, 2017
Spring 2017 edition of The Energist magazine.
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The Energist - Vol 2017.4.2 - The Energy of Learning

The Energist - Vol 2017.4.2 - The Energy of Learning

Posted May 26, 2017
Summer 2017 edition of The Energist magazine.
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The Energist - Vol 2018.5.1 - The Power of the Positives

The Energist - Vol 2018.5.1 - The Power of the Positives

Posted Feb 20, 2018
Winter 2018 edition of The Energist magazine. Available to read online on smart phones, tablets and in browsers, plus also the option to download as an Adobe PDF file for printing out at home or...
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