Separated – Relationship and Intimacy Restored after EMO

Sandra: "What do you want in relation to your husband?
Client: "Dont know"
Sandra: " and where do you feel that in your body?"
Client : in my stomach
We softened and released it, the energy flowed out her legs and feet.
Sandra: Ok now, what do you want?
Client: I want to be free.
Sandra: and where do you feel it in your body when you say I want to be free?
Client: Its fear, in my chest.
We soften and release the energy, flowing up and ot of her mouth.
Sandra: Ok now, when you say you want to be free how do you feel?
Client: Thats strange, i feel neutral.
Sandra: Ok, so now, think about your husband. Where do you feel it in your
body?
Client: In my stomach.
We soften and release it.
Sandra: Now when you think of your husband how do you feel?
Client: Thats strange. It feels ok now. Ive not felt like this for at least a year.
Sandra: Now, how much do you fancy him? How attracted are you to him?
Client: Well I dont fancy him much, say a 6 out of 10.
Sandra: So when you think about that, where is it in the body?
Client: In my heart.
We soften and release it.
Sandra: Ok now, how much do you fancy him?
Client: Well I do now. I can see me looking forward to him coming home from
work but then when he gets home and is actually there I feel blocked about it.
Sandra: So when you think about being intimate with him, where do you feel
that?
Client: Its out there(points in front of her) its a block between us.
Sandra: put your attention on this energy and soften it, and tell me what
happens.
Client; Its melted and is on the floor.
Sandra: Where does it want to go?
Client: Its coming in.
Sandra: Does it feel ok coming in through my feet?
Client: Yes.
Sandra: Ok let the energy flow in and through and tell me where it flows and where it wants to leave.
Client: Its flowing up and out my mouth.
Sandra: Ok let it flow up and out and tell me when its all cleared through.
Client: Its clear.
Sandra: Ok now, your husband comes home from work, you're looking forward to seeing him You know he'll want to make love to you, how do you feel?
Client: Smiles.... God this is amazing.
Sandra: When was the last time you felt this way towards your husband?
Client: A couple of years.

As I said, they’re getting back together again now and have restored their relationship.

I had a row with my Father in Law and bad relationship ever since

Client: "I had a row with my Father in Law, as he'd upset my wife with a tale of his marriage break up while she was pregnant and I was away from home. I was livid and since then our relationship has been very distant and I felt angry towards him and very guarded ever since. I feel awkward when he comes to visit, in my own house"
Sandra: So when you feel guarded towards him where do you feel that in your body?
Client: In my arms, it feels like hard wire down my arms and into my hands, like I want to punch him
Sandra: This is just blocked energy. Put your attention on it and think of it softening and tell me what happens.
Client: Its softening, going like liquid mercury and flowing towards my hands.
Sandra : Where does it want to leave?
Client: Through my fingers.
Sandra: OK Let it all flow down and release through your fingers and tell me when its all clear.
Client: Its clear now.
Sandra : Ok, so when you think of your Father in Law, how do you feel now? How guarded?
Client: (Bemused) Well, I dont (Laughs).
Sandra: How angry do you feel?
Client: (Thinks back to the issues) I dont (Laughs again)
Sandra: And when you think of him coming to visit and being friendly and welcoming to him, how does that feel?
Client: I just feel like he's ok, welcome and its all fine.