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The Battered Woman & EMO

The Battered Woman & EMO

EMO has a new answer to an old problem - "Why do people stay in hurtful, painful, injurious relationships with people who beat them in mind, body and spirit?"

The old answer was, "Because they're weak, stupid, because they have low self esteem, because they enjoy being beaten up, they love to be punished and are masochists!" - especially if a person was serially finding partners, spouses and friends who all abused them.

EMO has a totally different answer and a totally different way of treating "the battered woman" - which could also be of course, a man.

We know from Events Psychology that the main driver for unhealthy behaviours of all kinds are the so called Guiding Stars - a high charge running through the energy system in an instant, a positive experience that feels wonderful and well, an enlightenment experience.

These are pure energy body events, probably natural evolutionary events that have been wanting to happen, but in our energy-blind societies, they happen randomly and are totally misunderstood by the people who have these Guiding Star events, and totally undiagnosed by the care givers and care providers who are exclusively on the hunt for "trauma only" as the explanation as to why people do the things they do.

A Guiding Star is not a blessing to the energy system. The very fact that a person serially repeats or tries to repeat the Guiding Star event is proof that "the event is not complete." Just as in the flashbacks of trauma memories, Guiding Star driven behaviour is designed to re-present the problem over and over again, finally hoping for a resolution.

The case of the "battered women," metaphorically speaking, is so foundational and classic to Guiding Star theory, it was included in the first ever paper on Guiding Stars in 2000 as an example of how Guiding Stars work in general:

Following on from this, women who, for example, always marry abusive alcoholics are *not* deranged masochists who hate themselves for their low self concepts and seek punishment. Quite in the contrary. Chances are there was this one time when daddy came home, reeling and reeking of alcohol, picked up the little girl, sat her on his lap and called her "My beautiful princess."

THAT is what they're trying to recreate - and not all the years of constant and daily abuse!

Women under a Guiding Star of a man who is angry and hits women, similarly, have a terrifying struggle on their hands when well meaning care workers walk in and tell them all the rational reasons as to why they should pack up and go to the women's shelter, always with the pre-supposition right behind their kindly words that the woman is intensely stupid for still being with this guy. That sets up the tension conflict with their Guiding Star which may have been with daddy or even the abusive man himself, and leads to an absolutely shattering experience when they finally "give in" under the threat of death or harm to their children and "abandon their Guiding Star".

Excerpt from Guiding Stars 2000, Silvia Hartmann

Today we say that it is structurally impossible for a person to actively and repeatedly seek out an abusive relationship unless there is a Guiding Star with an abusive person in their history.

When we treat a person who suffers from the battered woman scenario, we don't talk of the abuse. We talk of the Guiding Star instead, the moment they fell in love, the best feelings with another person they ever had, the best they've ever felt in their lives.

We can explain that they are not seeking punishment, but instead seeking love, guided by their own personal highest taste of love.

To understand this is an enormous breakthrough for battered women who think they have low self esteem and that they are wanting to punish themselves for an unknown transgression, which is crazy and very dangerous, if you think about it.

To understand that whatever was done, was done in the name of love, is a hugely powerful moment in and of itself.

This often creates powerful energy movements and EMO is exactly the right tool to remind the person to soften and flow, that these really are only energies that are finally finding their rightful place in time and space, to breathe deeply, and that they are doing very well.

Now we can turn to the Guiding Star directly.

People are always scared to attempt an intervention on a Guiding Star, invariably citing the idea of, "This is the best memory of my life, if you change that or take it away, what will I have left ...?"

The answer to that is thankfully clear in EMO - you will have all the rest of your incarnation left to do things differently from now on and experience many more wonderful feelings, many more star states to come in the future.

Guiding Stars have a habit of blocking further enlightenment experiences, especially in the context of the subject which they rule.

This is probably structural to the energy system.

Even though Guiding Stars felt so good at the time, they are always an incomplete energy movement that needs to be completed.

Once that happens, the memory becomes clearer, but it is no longer addictive and needs no longer to be repeated with new substances or with new abusers, as in the case of battered women.

The Guiding Star becomes a "star memory" and the person themselves is free to choose differently now.

We can ask for the first abuser, the original Guiding Star event, where and when that happened, specifically, and then go on to ask the normal EMO question of, "Where do you feel this in your body? Show me with your hands." If the person does not remember (which is very rare because Guiding Stars are not "repressed" as trauma memories would be) you can ask for the most positive experience with any one of a series of abusers the client can remember.

Instead of running cleanly through the energy body, Guiding Stars are usually described as lightning strikes that cause an explosion somewhere - in the head, in the chest, in the stomach. An "explosion" in the energy body is really not much better than its opposite, a total blockage, it just feels very different; still we don't want an explosion but an even flow, in, through and out.

It's a fascinating exploration to work with Guiding Stars directly; they are such powerful energy occurrences and the effects they've had on people's lives are so extreme, it is very rewarding indeed.

"Breaking" Guiding Stars the old fashioned way, by trying to pile on so much pain, fear and misery that the person breaks down and as a last resort, literally crawls away "a broken spirit," is difficult, painful, time consuming and so very damaging to a person in the long term. On top of that, there is always the risk then that the person still will try to re-create a new abusive relationship once again because the basic problem in the energy system has never been addressed.

Evolving a Guiding Star, on the other hand, really does set a person such as a battered woman free from the Guiding Star and the person it was created with.

It changes the energy system for the better, and the understanding that everything was done for love, and never any other reason at all, is a veritable life saver.

I do hope that more people will begin to understand Guiding Stars and how they affect people; it is an essential piece of knowledge without which people behaviour doesn't make sense and the wrongful idea that we are all masochists, seeking to create suffering for ourselves through strange collections, desperately clinging on to the past, strange fetishes and serial abusive relationships, to mention but a few, is finally replaced by logic and the understanding that we people seek good experiences, and all we do, we do for love by any other name.

Silvia Hartmann

Author, EMO: Emotions, Energy, Information & Love 2011

Author, Events Psychology: How To Understand Yourself & Other People 2009/2014

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EMO: Emotions, Energy, Information & Love, 2nd Edition

EMO: Emotions, Energy, Information & Love, 2nd Edition

Posted Nov 3, 2016
Powerful information every person on this Earth needs to hear about. Fifteen years of EMO in theory and practice have taught us so much about energy, how it works with human emotion but also with...
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Energy Dancing I

Energy Dancing I

Posted Mar 23, 2010
Energy Dancing is a completely natural and intuitive way to increase energy flow throughout the body. This causes emotions to change for the better, as well as being a very fast method to...
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Energy Dancing II: The Sacred Horse

Energy Dancing II: The Sacred Horse

Posted Mar 21, 2010
Magic Dancing: Energy Dancing with The Sacred Horse. Experience profound relief, release, de-stress and energize your mind, your body, your energy body with this brilliant NEW self help program...
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Infinite Creativity: The Project Sanctuary Story

Infinite Creativity: The Project Sanctuary Story

Posted Jun 17, 2014
Infinite Creativity: The Project Sanctuary Story by Silvia Hartmann comes 16 years after the original Project Sanctuary manual was released. If you are interested in unlocking your minds full...
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Modern Energy Tapping by Silvia Hartmann

Modern Energy Tapping by Silvia Hartmann

Posted Jan 18, 2018
Following two decades of research with classic tapping, Energy in Motion, Energy EFT and Positive EFT comes Modern Energy Tapping - a system designed from the ground up to get you and your clients...
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The Modern Energist

The Modern Energist's Guide To The Afterlife: Soul Lessons For This Life -...

Posted Feb 1, 2018
In this Special Report, GoE President Silvia Hartmann takes us through an amazing journey to the afterlife - and beyond. If you have always wondered about the reality of the immortal soul, wanted...
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The Power of The Positives: Unlocking The Extraordinary Power Of Positive Energy In Modern Energy Work

The Power of The Positives: Unlocking The Extraordinary Power Of Positive...

Posted Dec 31, 2017
In this special report, Silvia Hartmann takes us deep into the Power of the Positives and guides us to the next step on our journey into the undiscovered country on the positive side of the Modern...
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Trillion Dollar Stress Solution

Trillion Dollar Stress Solution

Posted Oct 3, 2017
The Trillion Dollar Stress Solution: MODERN Stress Management - From Stress To Success. Very rarely, a book comes along that has the power to change the way we see the world. Silvia Hartmann's...
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4 Cool Energy Hacks For Procrastination, Anxiety & Self Doubt - Video with Silvia Hartmann

4 Cool Energy Hacks For Procrastination, Anxiety & Self Doubt - Video with...

Posted Oct 2, 2018
Raise energy FAST with these 4 quick and easy techniques to overcome procrastination, anxiety and self doubt presented by Silvia Hartmann: Heart Healing, EMO Energy In Motion, Modern Energy...
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Classic EFT Tapping by Silvia Hartmann - Easy EFT, Adventures in EFT, The Advanced Patterns of EFT and EFT & NLP

Classic EFT Tapping by Silvia Hartmann - Easy EFT, Adventures in EFT, The...

Posted Oct 22, 2019
Classic EFT Tapping by Silvia Hartmann is a compendium of some of the most important and influential classic EFT books available, including: Easy EFT by Silvia Hartmann -  Introductory guide...
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DragonRising Radio Show

DragonRising Radio Show

Posted Jan 8, 2018
DragonRising is the publishing arm of the Guild of Energists and they've released some of the most outstanding and innovative audio products available, including: HypnoSolutions, HypnoDreams,...
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Earth Rise Visualisation Training Audio 2006

Earth Rise Visualisation Training Audio 2006

Posted Jan 23, 2017
Earth Rise is a short energy hypnosis program created by Silvia Hartmann to improve the ability to visualise in internal representations. Use the exercise repeatedly and/or use in conjunction with...
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Elory

Elory's Joy Audio Recording 2005

Posted Jan 23, 2017
A rare audio recording of Silvia Hartmann telling the story "Elory's Joy" with a sound track by Ananaga Sivyer.
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EMO BeauTy T Complete

EMO BeauTy T Complete

Posted Jan 19, 2017
Follow with this fascinating transcript as Silvia Hartmann builds a brand new, shiny fresh and young body image from the ground up, step by step as this extraordinary training unfolds. Based on...
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EMO Beauty T Live Recording with Silvia Hartmann

EMO Beauty T Live Recording with Silvia Hartmann

Posted Feb 5, 2020
Members are invited to listen the complete audio recording of the 2004 BeautyT live training with Silvia Hartmann in the UK. This is a unique opportunity to listen to the complete set of LIVE...
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Energy EFT Master Practitioner Live Recording with Silvia Hartmann

Energy EFT Master Practitioner Live Recording with Silvia Hartmann

Posted Nov 26, 2019
In March 2012, Silvia Hartmann (President & Founder of The GoE) conducted a three day Energy EFT Master Practitioner live training near London Gatwick and we took along our cameras to record...
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Energy EFT Presentation by Silvia Hartman

Energy EFT Presentation by Silvia Hartman

Posted Mar 8, 2017
43 minute video recording of Silvia Hartmann presenting on Energy EFT at the Living Energy 2012 conference.
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GoE2013 - P01 - Positive Energy with Silvia Hartmann

GoE2013 - P01 - Positive Energy with Silvia Hartmann

Posted Nov 10, 2013
Silvia Hartmann's keynote presentation on Positive Energy to the delegates of the GoE Energy Conference 2013
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GoE2013 - P09 - Project Sanctuary - Infinite Creativity with Silvia Hartmann

GoE2013 - P09 - Project Sanctuary - Infinite Creativity with Silvia Hartmann

Posted Nov 10, 2013
Silvia Hartmann presenting on Project Sanctuary - Infinite Creativity at the GoE Energy Conference 2013
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GoE2014 - P01 - Keynote: Soul Matters with Silvia Hartmann

GoE2014 - P01 - Keynote: Soul Matters with Silvia Hartmann

Posted Nov 1, 2014
The energy system is a fascinating place with levels and layers, and so much to discover. By now, almost everybody knows that to mess with the heart centre is a very bad idea and leads to all...
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GoE2014 - P12 - Marketing for Energists with Silvia Hartmann

GoE2014 - P12 - Marketing for Energists with Silvia Hartmann

Posted May 4, 2017
In 2014, Silvia Hartmann brought together a special think tank to tackle the evergreen problem of MARKETING from the Energist's perspective and from the ground up. Modern energy work is a hugely...
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GoE2016 - P01 - Keynote: We Love Energy with Silvia Hartmann

GoE2016 - P01 - Keynote: We Love Energy with Silvia Hartmann

Posted Nov 1, 2016
Silvia Hartmann's keynote presentation from the GoE Energy Conference 2016, where she unveiled the "Big E" and we officially became the Guild of Energists.
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GoE2016 - P13 - Energy Constellations – Created by Silvia Hartmann – Presented by Ilka Wandel

GoE2016 - P13 - Energy Constellations – Created by Silvia Hartmann –...

Posted Apr 6, 2018
One hour video presentation by Ilka Wandel on Silvia Hartmann's "Energy Constellations". Also included is Silvia Hartmann's Energy Constellations Adobe PDF file to download and study at home. To...
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GoE2016 - P20 - Supermind: A New Intelligence For Energists?

GoE2016 - P20 - Supermind: A New Intelligence For Energists?

Posted Oct 12, 2018
For the last 23 years, brave souls have been venturing into Project Sanctuary, the original universal sandbox designed to learn the mysterious, fascinating and enchanting ways of the energy mind....
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GoE2017 - P01 - The Love Challenge with Silvia Hartmann

GoE2017 - P01 - The Love Challenge with Silvia Hartmann

Posted Jan 20, 2018
GoE President Silvia Hartmann's keynote presentation for the GoE Energy Conference 2017. The positive side of the Modern Energy Chart is truly "The Undiscovered Country" - it is a new world, a...
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How A Child Sex Abuse Survivor Healed 1 MILLION Hearts - Video with Silvia Hartmann

How A Child Sex Abuse Survivor Healed 1 MILLION Hearts - Video with Silvia...

Posted Oct 9, 2018
The extrordinary story how a distraught child sex abuse survivor triggered a chain of events that has helped to heal a million broken hearts - so far! - Video with GoE president Silvia Hartmann
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MindMillion 2005 by Silvia Hartmann - Complete Text

MindMillion 2005 by Silvia Hartmann - Complete Text

Posted Feb 10, 2017
MindMillion by Silvia Hartmann - Complete book has been added to the Library. In this extraordinary book, you will find the tried and tested remedies, techniques, tools and most of all, the...
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MindMillion Articles 2005 - 2012

MindMillion Articles 2005 - 2012

Posted Jan 22, 2012
MindMillion articles on business success from the energy perspective (pre-Energy EFT/Positive EFT) 2005 - 2012. Includes over seventy articles.
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